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spare time

March 12, 2010 · Leave a Comment

Helllloooooo. Not going to do the long apology for not being here more often. Just going to say, my house is a little bit cleaner, my family is eating a little bit healthier, I have done a bit more exercising, and I am knee-deep in a few projects. Can’t say that the trade-off thrills me, because I dearly miss writing every day, but I’m working out the kinks and hope to be back to a more regular pattern of posting soon. (You don’t even want to see my poor overloaded reader.)

I say we all make a pact to not EVER discuss vomit. Ever. You in?

We are back to waiting to see if Nicholas will qualify for Early Intervention Services. The whole process has been very easy on Nick and quite torturous on me. I had finally wrapped my brain around the fact that these services are needed and would be quite beneficial and then on the last of five evaluations kind of got the feeling that he was not going to qualify. So we wait.

Watching your child be tested (playing to him, but testing nonetheless) and wanting him to do poorly is such a hard thing to explain. I want nothing more than happiness for my children and success is usually all rolled up in that ideal. So rooting for him to fail is a tough thing mentally. Wanting him to fail, but only to a certain degree, so that he fails the test now but is actually able to get the help that will keep him from failing in the future. Brain soup.

So we wait.

Maggie has decided that for her birthday she would like to have a sleep-over for all 16 children in her class. When I stop laughing I will have to come up with an equally enticing plan that involves a maximum of three hours. It’s weird to even be thinking about planning her sixth birthday party. How is that possible? And soon she will be a first-grader. Make it slow down!

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Note to self

December 5, 2009 · 3 Comments

Just a quick list of some things I have learned today:

1. If you want the cookies that you give to the neighbors for the holidays to be perfect, don’t make it a project for you and your five-year-old.

2. The neighbors don’t need perfect cookies. They will be perfectly happy with the artwork of a five-year-old.

3. When you wear a brand new sweater, check it first for the “remove before wearing label.”

4. If you are going to buy two new pairs of jeans when you are feeling super skinny, make sure at least one pair has a little wiggle room.

5. Don’t keep the toothpaste and the Desitin in the same drawer. Just don’t.

6. Don’t ask for an opinion to confirm something you are 99% sure of, unless you are prepared for the other person to 100% disagree.

7. If your husband starts eyeing the wallpaper in yet another room, speak up before he starts peeling. It does neither of you any good to criticize when the walls are half-stripped.

8. Don’t tell your child about a surprise party and then send her to the guest of honor’s house with instructions “Not to talk about it.” Even if she doesn’t talk about it, you will be a nervous wreck.

That’s all.

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too much to do

October 5, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I thought by now, already into October, that I would have a better grip on my time.  I thought these magical free days would leave me knocking long-awaited chores off my three-year-old to-do list.

Wrong.

Somehow I find myself busier and busier.  A few of the things keeping me busy are deadlines that will soon pass (unfortunately all volunteer, not for pay) and I will get to move on to the next thing.

I have walls to paint.

I have rooms to organize.

I have books to read.

I have articles to write.

I have naps to take.

And none of it is getting done.  At least, not yet.  But I still have high hopes.  Just maybe not sky high.   A more reasonable high.  Maybe I should set my hopes very, very low, so that I am more likely to gain momentum.

Maybe I’ll just go have some chocolate and see what happens.

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Sunday pm

September 20, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I love being alone on a Sunday night when the rest of the family is asleep. I can’t even put into words how it feeds my soul.

If puttering was a profession, I would be a master putterer.  I love to putter.  And tinker. I would like to be a professional tinkering putterer.

Two posts I think everyone should read:

health care

Obama

Have a peaceful night.

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ummm, hi

August 16, 2009 · Leave a Comment

So, hi.  Yeah, it’s been awhile.  And this is about to be a failed attempt at reconnecting.

Life has been a little busier than usual around here.  I had plenty of things to talk about, just not enough time to sit down and get it all out.  And now I don’t remember what I was going to say.

This is just to say that all is well.  Nothing new or horrible has been going on.

The next two weeks have a lot in store – my 20-year high school reunion, an ENT visit for Maggie, a neurology appointment for Nicholas, and Maggie’s first day of kindergarten, just to name a few.

If I can gather my thoughts, I might hit on a few topics that now seem like ancient history from last week.  Or I might just move forward.

For this moment, I’m going to break up a fight about Legos and get breakfast started.

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B.Day

July 14, 2009 · 3 Comments

So, it’s my birthday.  And we are just hanging out at home.  We ran a few errands today – finished the paperwork so Maggie is set to start kindergarten, got a freak chance for the kids to explore a school bus as we left the school, and a few other measly things not worth mentioning.  But the morning started with Maggie heading for the couch after breakfast.  The only other times this has happened she has ended up puking in a bucket, so I was freaked, to say the least.  But she read some books and rallied and off we went.

I kept thinking to myself: the world is not a cruel enough place for her to puke on my birthday.  Right? So far it’s looking like a false alarm.  Whew.

We celebrated my birthday last weekend when my parents were here.  My dad and I went out to run a few errands, one of which was getting a gift card from Barnes and Noble.  My dad jumped at the chance to join me at the bookstore.  Let’s just say he has a love of books like few people I have ever met.

We both headed to the discount bins that were teasing us with 40-75% off signs.  He found a few that “he couldn’t pass up.”  I found a book on making skirts that looked interesting, so we bought our books and continued on our journey.

When we got home my mom asked if we had found anything, knowing the answer was most likely in the affirmative.  I showed her the skirt book and she laughed at me.

“I should know better that to send you two out alone to the bookstore.”

“What??”

“A skirt-making book?  Really?  Because you make so many skirts?”

“Well, now I will be able to make some skirts because I have the book that will show me how.”

The logic seemed to hold for me.  She was not convinced, in the least.  So now I really will make a skirt just to prove myself right.  Because in all honesty, I don’t follow sewing directions very well.  I kind of make it up as I go along.  But I have some really nice fabric that I have been afraid I’ll ruin.  So with a little education on skirt making, maybe I will know enough to fake my way through it.  How hard can it be??  (I’ll get back to you on that.)

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Sunday night randomness

July 12, 2009 · Leave a Comment

A funny moment from today:

We went to breakfast this morning and were waited on by our favorite server.  She has a son Nick’s age and she has always marveled at the amount of breakfast our kids pack away.  At one point she was filling up a water glass and overheard this:

“What does he want?” Mike asked me.

“He wants the orange garnish.”

“Oh.  How does he eat it? Do I need to peel the skin off?” (it was a half of a slice of orange.)

And then the waitress came in as if on cue:

“How old is he?  Two and a half?  And you don’t know how he eats his oranges?”

It was hysterical.  If I had said it I would have been a total nag, but she had a way of saying it that made it OK to say.  She came back a moment later and said “My husband finally got me a cup of tea one day.  He came back to me and had to ask me where the sugar was.  We’ve been in the same house for ten years.  The sugar has been in the same place for ten years.”

And we knowingly looked at each other and smiled.  Because that’s really all you can do.

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I was also lucky enough to get to go to a fun bridal shower tonight.  The hostess had the best idea – we painted cans – for the bride and groom to attach to the back of their car at the wedding.  It was so fun to get to paint, though for all my creativeness in many places, I seriously lack some painting skills.  Mine was the funniest looking can of them all, right after the groom’s can.  I happened to be in a room full of very talented people.  If only it came out the way it looked in my head.  But alas, no.

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My brain is a little fried from the constant circles it’s been turning the last few days, so I  don’t feel like I’m making a whole lot of sense.  (One way I know this is I keep going back and adding words.  Normally I go back and make things more concise.)  I am feeling better, both physically and mentally.  No need to have me fitted for a white jacket, yet.  Sometimes I work things out here that might be better left unpublished, but I hope in the future, my kids will be able to see that life has ups and downs and worries and wonderfulness.

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Sometimes…but

June 12, 2009 · 2 Comments

Sometimes I forget to ask questions that some people would assume means I’m being rude, but I don’t like to pry.

Sometimes I don’t ask questions because I don’t want to be nosy, but I’m not disinterested.

Sometimes I talk too much, but I do enjoy listening too.

Sometimes I talk when I’m nervous, but often when I’m nervous, I don’t talk at all.

Sometimes I talk about my children too much, but I find them fascinating. (I appreciate you humoring me as much as you do.)

Sometimes when I get home from talking with friends, I wonder if I interrupted too often, but I continue to accidentally interrupt.

Sometimes I ramble on a bit, seemingly without any point, but sometimes there is a point.

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your reader and me

May 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

In case you haven’t noticed, I’m a little fancy now.  A little new.  I’m officially www.brigidday.com now.  How cool is that? It’s one step easier to add to your reader.  What? I’m not in your reader?  What are you waiting for? Add me to your reader.  Come on, you know you want to.  Please?

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the rest of the story

May 1, 2009 · 3 Comments

The big news around here today:  My biopsy results came back normal!  A normal “beauty spot,” that is.  And they called today, when I wasn’t expecting the results until Tuesday, so I only in a mild panic and not full-fledged panic.  I think they could teach a few things to another doctor’s office we frequent who tells you they will have results the next day and then don’t get them or even call to say they won’t have them for two more days.  (Yes, I know I’m bitter.)

And not to long after the phone call, I finally got my appetite back.  The five pounds I have dropped this week was kind of OK, except now that I can eat again, I’m sure I will gain them back before the weekend is even over.

Now, onto other things.  I am the type of person who likes to know the whole story.  I watch the end of TV shows and movies (even if they suck) and I read the end of books (even if they suck).  I like to know the whole story.

So, here goes.

The planter  wart is looking half dead, which means it will probably need to be frozen again when I go back to have my stitches removed.

The new water heater is working just fine.  And we haven’t blown up.

I haven’t lost my car keys in four days.  Yay!

Mike is still killing bees.  Nick is still imitating him and Maggie cheers them both on.  And the fact that I told Mike he was the subject of my blog, still did not get him to read it.  I wonder sometimes just how opposite we can actually be.

Only doing slightly better with “one thing at a time.”  I found myself folding laundry with a package half ready to mail at my side.  I still try to be the most streamlined I can be in my tasks, but now realize that might not be helping me so much.  It took me over three hours to wrap a package and get it ready to ship.  During those three hours I also: attended to the children 1,000,000,000 times, did three loads of laundry, checked facebook, talked on the phone, emptied the dishwasher, etc.  I really just wanted the package done.  So, one thing at a time – needs work.

I still think Nicholas is making great strides.  His teacher mentioned to me how much he is talking (then she named the three words he said that day.  When saying three words is a lot, you can begin to imagine how mute very quiet he was.)  But I was glad that she agreed with me.  And he talks a lot at home now. 

Maggie has been about 50/50 with unpacking her lunch box.  She is doing it everyday she has school, but sometimes I still have to remind her.  My goal is not having to mention it at all.

I have had a few hearty laughs at my really great day post.  As in, haven’t had any since then.  But hey, the bad ones make us notice the good ones.

We didn’t make it to China after Maggie’s doctor appointment.   I think the only trip we made that day was to the grocery store.  But they upped her dose again, so hopefully that will even things out.  We have never upped it twice in 6 weeks.  She’s growing like a weed.

I have decided to leave our current pediatrician.  We will finish out May and part of June there, so I can get Maggie’s kindergarten paperwork signed and sealed and then we are out of there.  Thanks to everyone for the support.

And the beach, the kids are still pretty enthralled with the sand box and water box.  Pretty soon I will add some other activities, like melting ice, magnet work and a few other things I can incorporate into the sand and water.  I’ll get back to you on that.

I haven’t had a chance to make any more cookies, but I hope to this week.  Another practice run and I should be ready for Maggie’s birthday party.  And the baby shower.

And this turned out to be a lot more boring and rambling than I intended, so I may never do it again.

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